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First off, before we go any further, we need to clarify something. When it comes to what people find attractive in potential romantic partners, it is very much subjective. Today we’re going to be looking at a few traits and characteristics in men that women generally find attractive. There will be some women out there reading this that will wholeheartedly disagree, and that’s okay, because there will also be plenty reading that agree. If you’re looking to attract a potential romantic partner, it pays to think like a woman. Men like to think they know what women want, but the truth is that most of the time they are pretty darn clueless. The info we’re listing today is backed up by research and has come directly from a number of women. Read it, study it, and use it to your advantage. Here are a few things that women look for in men.


Confidence in men is a huge turn on for a lot of women. Women want a man that knows what he wants, isn’t afraid to say what he’s thinking, and who is willing to let actions speak louder than words. A confident man that isn’t afraid to approach a woman and say what’s on his mind will go far. In fact, an average-looking confident man will generally have more success with the ladies than a good-looking man with no confidence. The thing to remember here is that arrogance and confidence should not be confused with one another. If you come across as arrogant when speaking to a woman, don’t be shocked if you don’t hear back from her shortly afterwards.


Women love a man that can stand on one leg without toppling over, it’s a well-known fact. Only kidding. Yes, when it comes down to what women look for in men, they love a guy who is emotionally, romantically, and financially stable. They don’t want a guy who is still torn up over his ex, nor do they want a guy that coasts from one job to the next with no stability. They also want a man with mental stability, not one who will fly off the handle at the drop of a hat. Though the tired cliché is that women gravitate towards drama, the truth is that most women out there want a stable guy and a simple life.


Guys seem to be under the impression that most women want a man with a ripped body, with abs and veins poking out all over the place. While some women do enjoy this look, according to recent statistics, most women prefer their guys to have a little more meat on their bones. We aren’t talking fat here, think of what a powerlifter or a rugby player may look like. He will typically be big and muscular, while some carrying a little extra padding. Also guys, stop shaving your chests and stomachs, as statistically, women are also a fan of body hair in the right places.